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writes:hi aunts please help!Im in a bit of a sticky situation.I REALLY REALLY like this guy. ive known him for quite a while but have only been speaking to him properly for the last few months. I asked him (when he was on his own)if he liked me and he said he thought i was a very nice looking girl.Then a few weeks later i asked what he would say if i asked him out, this time his reply was "not sure"! what does this mean?We are going out to the pub tommorow night for a drink with some friends then we are going back to mine for a party.Is there anything i can do to make him realise im not like all the other girls he has been with and that im something special to keep? (every girl is special in their own way).I really do like him from the bottom of my heart and really want to know what i can do in this situation! x Reply to this Question |
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reader, dearkelja  + ♥, writes (8 November 2007):
 I agree that the "not sure" answer is not what you wanted to hear. When you asked him if he liked you, his answer was deflecting the question by saying you looked nice. So sorry but this is not your man. Don't chase after him.
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reader, Collaroy  + ♥, writes (8 November 2007):
 Hi ,
"you can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink."
I'm afraid after you told him that you might ask him out, if he didnt take the hint there he never will.
"not sure" is probably the last answer you wanted to hear.
It shows an indifferent nature and you have to ask yourself why you want to chase after someone who appears disinterested in you.
Now boys can say stupid things, I know I have, but from a boy's perspective if a girl I liked asked me out the last thing I would say would be "not sure".
Sorry mate. I would forget this one.
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reader, becca78 +, writes (8 November 2007):
There's nothing you can do. You've dropped a couple of big hints that you're interested and he hasn't taken the bait. It sounds like he likes you as a friend and by replying not sure he's trying not to hurt your feelings. I could be wrong about this, but if he's not interested you'll end up getting hurt if you try to push it.
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