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How do I get this guy in my life?

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Question - (12 December 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi,

i just wanted to know if there was anyone who could help me, to tell me how it is best to get a guy that hasn't been in my life properly to be finally in it.

i haven't seem him in a while and i obviously still like him at times it really seems that there is something between us but I'm not around him enough to be able to find out.

I know where he lives but i don't think that it would be appropriate to invite myself over lol.

I don't even know what i am to him if anything.I don't see how i could possibly bump into him anymore as the times that i saw him before was when he worked where i went shopping but he has got a different job now so i can no longer see him.

is it even possible to get him in my life?

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (13 December 2015):

Denizen agony auntYou need to create opportunities for you to be together. You might have to enlist the help of friends to achieve this. Nothing is going to happen any time soon by just wishing, so you had better get your thinking cap on. He has to at least have the opportunity to say, 'no thanks'. But let's be positive. You might be the perfect piece that has been missing from his life.

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A female reader, Tottochan India +, writes (13 December 2015):

If you know his name you could always search for him on Facebook and contact him like that.

Since you don't really know him all that well, you could always initiate the conversation and get to know him first. Maybe online initially, and then possibly via phone/text.

Sure you could always have someone that you care for in your life - first figure out whether you two are compatible personality-wise by getting to know him. If you two have chemistry and get on well, then who knows? You could be in each others lives permanently too :)

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