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How do I get revenge on him without him knowing it was me?

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Question - (20 December 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2006)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi,

A guy ditched me just before xmas, made me feel hurt and humiliated. Is there anyway I can get revenge on him but not, so it's a giveaway that it's me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006):

Walk away with your head held high is the best revenge you can put in his face. Let him see that you are not bothered at all. Go out over the holiday season with family and friends and party! Get out there and have a great time.

Revenge just isn't worth the effort you put into it.

Be a woman and go forth!

Take care and merry christmas

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006):

Revenge just shows him that he got under your skin and really got to you - the best method of revenge is "IGNORE HIM" and completely blank him when you see him out and move on with your life!! It may hurt and it may be a very hard thing to do but it will make you the better person

I discovered that with most guys that they hate been ignored more than anything in the world and makes them seem really childish then when they say and do stupid childish things to try and gain your attention again!!

I kno from example when a guy I used to be friends with suddenly starting saying all these really hurtfull and spitefull things about me to my friends!! Thankfully they didn't believe him - it hurt me a lot but I never once acknowleged him or answered him back!!

That drove him mad cos everytime he saw me out he was saying stupid things to me in front of people but I just laughed, walked on as if he didn't exist and all his friends told him to cop on as he was acting so stupid and childish!! He's 28 - not a kid!!!

Best of luck and happy christmas

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006):

revenge is childish. be the bigger more better person and let his f#@k ups be. move on

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A female reader, fairyangel South Africa +, writes (21 December 2006):

fairyangel agony auntYou know, This is the best advise I can give you right now...

The best revenge is success... be successfull in what you do in your life.Your enemies hate that, plus you have the added advantage of not attracting bad karma while you are doing it.

See? Perfect!

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