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writes:I've been in relationships before. Once married and now divorced. But I've never felt what i feel for my cousin. He is my uncle's son. We've seen each other twice during our childhood. But now, he is this accomplished man who's stirring this warmth in my heart which i never felt before. I care and love him at the same time. In reality, i never cared for any of my exes. My cousin made it well known that he wouldn't be able to be with me because of our status. It is breaking my heart because i love him so much. I even get embarrassed to accept the desires that stirs within me! This desire to kiss him and spend many nights together. But it cannot be and my heart just sinks to my feet and i refuse to accept the truth! All this, he is not aware but probably noticed something about me. How do i rip him off my heart? How can i get over this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2016): avoid him. that's in person, social media, phone, pictures etc. until your desires die down
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reader, Denizen +, writes (28 June 2016):
 It isn't illegal to marry your cousin in the UK. A quick Google would have told you this. So in answer to you question you don't have to get over it, at least not for that reason. Whether he wants a relationship with you is something you are now free to find out.
I hope it has a happy ending for you both.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (28 June 2016):
 You don't "love him so much"; you're infatuated. I'm glad he's already let you know nothing can happen.You're 36 - 40, you *know* this is silly. You've had dodgy relationships and are latching on to someone who seems like your ideal guy - so use it! Look for guys *like* him, but who aren't related to you. Try online dating, speed dating, etc.What type of guys have you gone for before? What do you want for your future?
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