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writes:How do I get over someone who I have a huge crush on? And I have no idea how he feels about the whole thing, but I know that it'll never happen cos when we met up I really put my foot in it. I basically gave the impression that I'm a shallow person and want a bf for the sake of having one...which is NOT the person I am at all! I either need to put this right or I need to get over him...any ideas on what I could do? I've never felt this way about anyone before, and whenever I see pictures of him with other girls, its like something knocks all the wind out of me, which I know is mad!!Ahh please any ideas on how I can either talk to him about it all and tell him how I feel, or how to get over him. Everytime I think I'm over him I dream about him, and in my dream we act like a couple etc etc...ahhh this whole thing is driving me around in circles...
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reader, Fionaisme  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 hey hun i think you have nothing to lose by talking to him. Just say you were nervous and you dont think you gave off a very good impression but you are interested him and your sorry you gave off that impression. If he is interested and still wants to meet up then you may get things back on with you two. And if not then you know he isnt and its time to move on and try forget him. Do things with your friends and be happy, its the best way to be when things with guys dont work out.
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reader, rajnesh +, writes (17 April 2008):
 well if he has the wrong impression of you, you should basically tell him the truth. Tell him everything how it is, lay the cards on the table. If he knows the truth then he can act on that. Dont be afraid of rejection because it happens alot and since he will be aware of how you feel about him he wont really find it easy to sayno. The bottom line is he coul dbe feeling the same way about you but you just dont realise it. Once you told him dont call him or try and act desperate if he calls you back then you know youve got a pretty good chance.
If you cant face him then you should tell him how you feel on the phone, dont txt or email as this is not a good start to a relationship you have to be open and as i said before lay the cards on the table.
hope the advice helped
good luck and all the best hope you get your dream boy ;)
xxxxxx
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Well the only thing that can make you feel better is to talk to him and tell him how you feel, it probably feels scary but dont worry whats the worst he can do or say. Atleast you know you got it of your chest and then you can get over him if he doesnt feel the same way. Do it when your alone though like invite him over for some dinner just tell him you think of him more of a friend, then let him carry on.
Good luck chick.
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