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writes:so I've liked my teacher for about 2 1/2 years since grade 8 something like that. Anyways i'm done jr.high now and even though I've only been off for a day or two i miss him terribly,last day of school i gave him a hug and that felt like closer but it didn't work. the last week of school i tried to convince myself i don't like him anymore but i was a lie i still do, those feelings are still there. What can i do to get him out of my head? and how can i make sure i don't fall for another teacher when going into high school? any help would be much appreciated and i'm 15 btw and i realize nothing will nor can happen so don't say i'm immature cause i'm really trying to get over him.
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reader, blueskyday +, writes (5 July 2011):
blueskyday is verified as being by the original poster of the questionpink90- i WISH i had his email so i could just talk to him but he does have a girlfriend and that would be weird, even if we would talk about nothing!
swordandredrose- he's 15 years older so twice my age,which isn't as big a difference but still large.
but yeah i guess in time i will get over it, i just just perfer sooner than later
thank you guys for your experiences ! i'll try to distract myself as much as i can
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reader, swordandredrose +, writes (5 July 2011):
Hey there,
I've been through this before. I had strong feelings for one of my high school teachers and I thought that I would never get over him. This happened my senior year in high school. Unlike all other students, I was so sad on the last day of school because I knew that I wasn't gonna see him again until Christmas because I was leaving for college. I'm not sure how serious your problem is but mine was really serious because I was almost a college student. Long story short, it took me a year and a half to forget about him. But now I'm so glad that I'm over him. For your information, he was 34 years older than me!
I'm not saying that it is gonna take you this long to forget about him. All I'm saying is that you will eventually get over him. It's just a matter of time.
I'm not really sure if there is a right answer to your second question because you can never tell your heart what to do.
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reader, pink90  +, writes (5 July 2011):
 ino how you feel as i am going through a similar thingI am a 2nd year university student and I have a crush on one of my male lecturers. I miss him all the time when I am not with him, we constantly email and I now have his personal email address... as i am no longer his student!When he stopped being my teacher I visited him in his office and we had a really nice chat and then I had to go... He gave me a hug, but it wasn't like a friendly hug, we were really close and he held me really tight... I really didn't want to let go... but all good things have to come to an end!I think the best thing for you to do is think of other things try not to have him on your mind all the time... it will drive you crazy believe me... You are still young, and have plenty of time and one day you will meet someone better and you will think of them rather than a teacher... enjoy yourself and have fun :)
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reader, blueskyday +, writes (4 July 2011):
blueskyday is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni will try your suggestions but he's honestly the greatest guy in the world , not just saying that but he's everything i could ever wish for it's gonna be so hard. but thank you for your advice and comforting words. and thank you do much! i'll message you if i have any questions or want to talk, thank you!
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reader, lonelygirl11 +, writes (2 July 2011):
Your gonna have to try move on i do know how difficult it is as i have not managed to move on from my teacher either and i know where you are coming from as i feel exactly same and have never had a proper bf. Just try your best and occupy yourself im here if you wanna chat.
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reader, blueskyday +, writes (1 July 2011):
blueskyday is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you lonleygirl you really did help but now i'm wondering what if i never ever get over him i don't even take interest in other guys or not completely or i compare every guy to him but none ever measure up. ans Sammy yeah i would never act on it i don't want him in any kind of trouble, and i'll take you and lonelygirl's advice to just distract myself. thank you!!
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (1 July 2011):
as much as you think you might like him do not act upon it you may get into serious trouble i would try keeping yourself busy go out with friends family etc
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reader, lonelygirl11 +, writes (1 July 2011):
I know how you feel try occupy yourself with friends hobbies etc to take ur mind of him as for preventin it happenin again i dont think there is anything you can do cos with hormonoes and all it could easily happen. I fell for one teacher during my school years and i still have feelings for him eventhough i not seen him in several yrs. I have really tried to get over him but cant and i to realise nothin will ever happen. You are not immature for feelin this was. So i do know how hard it is and im here if you wanna chat.
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