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How do I get my ex to see the light again? He's being so foolish!!

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Question - (25 June 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am having major anxiety---I love my ex so, so, so much and I think I made a mistake in giving him too much space. I knew we were close to getting married and wanted some time to myself to think about my career, next steps, etc. During this time, he started dating someone else and only wants to be my friend.

What the hell!? Guys....what is going on here? The man that was so in love with me and wanted to do everything with me has now turned over a new leaf. I don't understand. Can you please help explain?

Not to mention, he still calls me daily, sends emails, wants me to visit, etc.

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A male reader, Al 2008 United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2008):

hey

I take it that if you were close to getting married then you have been together a while? How did he take it when you mentioned you wanted some time to yourself? Im sure that if he loved you he will be coming back to you once he realises this. As far as him turning over a new leaf, feelings dnt just turn on and off, how much space did you give him?

Him calling you everyday, sending you emails and wanting you to visit means he clearly doesnt want you to be moving on and will still care about you. However him been able to do this puts him in control, he wont be missing you if he knows he can see you, speak to you etc when he wants, be slightly less available to make him think.

I think that if he did truely love you then he still will, my gf split up with me over a month ago now and i love her more than anything!

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