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writes:A few weeks ago i had sex with this guy for the first time. It turned out to be the best sex i've ever had. The first time we had the flat to ourselves for most of the night - he lives with his younger brother - a few hours later, while still in full swing of things, his brother comes home, which is no big deal as we were in the bedroom, we just shut the door properly. We heard his brother go in the living room and turn the tv on and we carried on. I'm extremely vocal during sex and find it very difficult to keep quiet if i'm really into it. Knowing his brother was in the next room i tried to keep it down but in the end i couldn't. The next day he told me his brother was watching porn in the living while we were having sex but he ended up turning the volume down cause he was getting turned on by listening to me. Friday just gone we were at a friends house are a night out and we were talking about sex previous and present experiences when his brother starts playing with his phone. The next thing i know i hear a girl moaning. It turned out that he had recorded me and was now playing it to a room full of people...i was slightly embarrassed but laughed it off. The next time i was arranging to see this guy he text me saying that if his brother has to listen to me he's going to want to join in, which again i laughed off. His brother has started to make some moves towards me, both subtly and obvious. He asked what i find attractive on guys so i told him i like upper arms and broad shoulders his response was i've got better arms than my brother so what you doing with him...then he tells me he wishes i would scream for him etc etc. I've told him i'm not comfortable with that type of talk etc and he sed he'd back off but he's been saying things similar to what i've already said to his brother (the one i'm seeing) how do i get him to stop and understand that i'm not interested??sorry this is long and probably confusing...if you want anymore info or anything clarified just ask
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhen he played the recording his reaction was guaged on mine. I was obviously shocked first off but then laughed it off saying to him 'Just means ur brother is good at what he does!' as it does take a lot to embarrass me and i can be as crude as a sailor. It's just when i do get to the point of near embarrassment i make it known and get it stopped. I know he has told his brother to back off when i'm there and when i'm not but when he's had a drink he don't seem to quite get it. When we've all bin out a group of us usually end up at one persons house and we always end up talking about sex and sometimes he'll say things during those conversations and i say no ta not interested and he lets it drop. But the other day everyone was in the kitchen and i went in the living room - they all smoke and i don't and my asthma had been bothering so i stayed away for a bit - he came and sat with me and we had a normal chat then he put the 900 channels from sky on the tv and started calling them up and trying to get me to talk the person on the other end of the phone. When his brother (the guy i'm seeing) came in he instantly moved and said sorry. It now just happens behind his back which is pissing me off even more. I've been nice telling him no and i've been as rude as i can be and so has the guy i'm seeing but he just doesn't seem to be getting it
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (13 October 2008):
 Ehh... that's kind of weird. The most confusing part about it for me is your own guy's reaction. Wouldn't most guys be kind of annoyed about their brother talking to and about their girlfriend like that? Instead, he's aiding and abetting his brother. Did he say anything when his brother played the recording?
I don't know how serious you are about this guy, but the situation seems kind of strange to me. If it were me, and I didn't have strong emotions for him (good sex doesn't count, I know it's nice but you can find it again), I think I would be heading out of the door.
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