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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:How do I get my boyfriend to realise once and for all...I don't like him directing obscene language to me, particularly F-bombs? It gives the impression that we have a trashy relationship, which we don't! I never speak to him that way and I have already told him how I feel about this on more than two occasions. It seems he never makes an effort to change his choice of language towards me even though he says he'll work on it. He's really ignorant towards this subject. I've tried everything, and i'm at my witts end! Reply to this Question
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reader, sexi  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Hi
I had that problem with my bf until yesterday i really decided i cant take it anymore. He swore at yesterday coz i wanted to see what was behind a building (i was by myself) and i got reallly upset coz it was my birthday and i ended up crying and he felt bad so he asked me what can he od to make it up to me and i said...(1) Respect me (2) Dont shout at me (3) Dont swear at me. You should set up boundaries and make sure that he doesnt cross them. I told my bf that if he doesnt respect me or he shout or swear me he must stay away from me for a week! So try setting up some boundaries.
Regards
Sexi
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