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How do I get his number?

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Question - (25 March 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Heyya :)

There is this boy in the year above me in school. We have recently started texting. He texts me everyday and he always starts the conversation with me. We also talk whenever we get the chance at school and when we hang out. He's a really nice boy and we are good friends. Whenever I ask him to do me a favour he will always do it. However some of his friends always make a joke about us getting together and he goes red but doesn't say anything to counter them. I dont like him in that way though. He is just a really good friend of mine. The thing is that he has a twin. And it is his twin that I like. Most people say stay away from twins, but I just dont think thats right. Anyway I really like his twin. We talk quite a bit in person, he always tries to make me laugh, he walks with me when I'm alone, he stares at me when he thinks I dont see him, and he is very playful towards me. Our friend says we really suit eachother etc. But we dont talk much on facebook, and we dont have eachothers number. I dont mind it but I would like his number, but I'm too shy to ask him for it. So I like to drop little hints but he doesn't seem to pick up on it.

Anyway, he and his twin were going on a trip and the one who texts me said he would ring me at 4:30 when he gets up. So for an excuse to talk to the twin I like over facebook I started a conversation with him. It was going alright until I explained to him his brothers plan and asked him to steal his phone. He then went really wierd. He started getting really blunt towards me, stopped being funny he went really serious. He then started talking alot about sex and sexual things towards me. He never usually talks the way he was, i isn't that kind of guy, so I dont understand why, then he just stopped talking to me. I havent seen him yet since then but I dont know why he started acting so weird.

So I guess what I would like to know is-

1. Any hits on how to get the twin I like's number?

and

2. Why did he begin to act so weird and do you think he will carry on like this?

Thanks :) x

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2012):

N91 agony auntJust ask lol Not got anything to lose.

And this guy probably thinks you're interested in him, seeing as you spend a lot of time together and get on so well. He will have taken it in the wrong way and tried to show you he likes you as more than a friend.

Albeit in the wrong way and to talk about sexual stuff is pretty full on. It'd be a good idea to explain the situation to him so that he doesn't get any more wrong ideas.

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A female reader, supermum United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2012):

supermum agony auntIn answer to question 1) Ask him. Duh. Lol

In answer to question 2) Because he is a jerk. I would stay away.

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