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How do I get him to chose ME not HER?

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Question - (25 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 March 2011)
A female Malaysia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

the guy i am seein right now has a girl and there relationship according to him has no future that is why he started a new one with me we been together a bit over a month but now i am in too deep and i do not want to fall any deeper so fast what do i do we done it all we ve hd sex we spend all our free time together someone advice me how do i keep him from going all out for the other girl i know since he been with me he hardly contact her she the one always hollaring at him but she still in the pic and i am scared of getting hurt please dont go all mean at me if u aint gone give useful advice dont at all

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A male reader, PM Canada +, writes (25 March 2011):

PM agony auntTell him how you feel about him. Tell him that you're afraid of getting hurt and that you would like him to end things with the other girl because you want to be his one and only.

If he does end it, then you know he is serious about being monogamous with you. If he does not, then you have to ask yourself what you're willing to put up with to be with him. He may not be willing to be monogamous and if that's case you have to either accept that or be willing to walk away.

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A male reader, adamskidude United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2011):

adamskidude agony auntAsk him to leave her for you officially. That will show you he loves you :)

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