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writes: Hi, in desperate need of help!Alright, tomorrow I am going to Nottingham with our badminton team and this boy I have a crush on is going also (we are managers of the younger years) and basically, we've been given the green-light to stay up to whatever time we like, so we agreed that we would go to the hotel's swimming pool.HOW do I flirt in a pool?! I am not the world's most confident person even though I don't look awful in a bikini (my Mum oh so VERY kindly calls me a beanpole...)I think he likes me, we were joking about how funny it would be if one of us had to stay in the same room as the younger kids (sweet as they are, they're so annoying!) and then he said "Or, you and I might be in a room. Eh, roomie?" and nudged me, grinning in a hinty kind of way. If that makes sense.Sorry this post is really badly written and not particularly eloquent, but I'm short on time and clueless on poolside etiquette!Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2018): Hey! I might be late, but I'm going swimming tomorrow and I'm gonna give you my tips on how I do it.
Wear a cute swim suit or something, It's always a bonus. Of course be comfortable in what your wearing though!
Be smiley and kind, don't go overboard though.
Splash him sometimes, again, don't go overboard.
"accidentally" touch his leg underwater
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): Hes into you well I think so anywayJust joke arond be cheeky splash around n have fun be yourself but be sexy but dont over do it play hard to get a little Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011): Hmmm...Find a corner of the pool without of lot of people. Tread water and chat. Engage in pool games if they're being played: Sharks and Minnows...Marco Polo...water volleyball.Unless you have the pool all to yourself, I wouldn't make it an opportunity for making out or anything overtly sexual.Beware of horseplay. A boy who liked me nearly drowned me this way was when I was 15.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011): Okay then.Any guy cannot resist have a gander at a gorgeous girl in a bikini/swimsuit so that's a fab idea. Think of it as a little bit like a james bond movie e.g halle berry coming out of the sea.Be graceful, smile alot(nice and inviting). Throw him a back handed compliment of how he looks good in his swim shorts. 'Check you out, not a Daniel craig but you'll do ;)' Be playful, joke around chase each other around the pool or relax in a jacuzzi if they have one?Might be worth asking if he fancies joining you at the hotel bar for a cheeky drink? Play it cool and be yourself. I'm sure you'll look great and give him goosebumps x
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