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How do I find out if my friend is gay or not w/out acting suspicious?

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Question - (15 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2007)
A male New Zealand age 30-35, kaleb writes:

How do you get an opinion of gays from a guy that you dont know if he is gay or not without making him suspicous. P.S i cant be straight up with him because he is my mate and we go to school. Please any advice would be great.

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A female reader, Jendorset United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2007):

If i remember rightly, i think i have read a question of yours before. You like this guy, but dont know if he likes other guys or not. My last advice was to make light comments about gay men, and see his reaction. My advice now would be, maybe to get drunk together and see if he trys it on. Also, spend alot of time with him, get to him and his opinions. Like big brower said, does he seem attracted to woman. Does he stare at them ? Does he see a woman with big boobs and make comments, or stare ? My main advice would be to analyse his behavior. Im a serious analyser and its the only way i get the bottom of anything.

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A male reader, Bigbowser2 United Kingdom +, writes (15 February 2007):

Bigbowser2 agony auntMmm, im not sure if I understand this question but there really is no easy way of finding out to be honest with you. Does he seem interested in women? Sometimes the smallest little hints can build up to the answer. If you just wanted his opinion on Gay people then theres no reason why you shouldnt ask him what he thinks or if hes offended by gay people.

Its a perfectly normal thing so few people are bothered by it anymore. Its not the best thing to ask him outright if he things *X Person* is hot because then hes going to know somethings up with you.

If you could give us some more information I might be able to help more :)

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