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How do I feel comfortable about having sex with her, for the first time?

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Question - (26 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

hi

i want some advice , this week I'll be with this girl

so i may be having my first ever sex with her o

how do i feel comfable have sex with her but

she not a virgin

what should i do

i am 24 and she 21 so i be at her flat this week

write bck

thx

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (27 November 2007):

You really sound nervous and excited. Take it a bit more easy because you may be depressed if things turn out sour or don't go as expected. RELAX. I always encourage guys to prolong foreplay soo you can ejaculate before the main game. Most of the time 1st times don't last that long because of the excitement and the longer you take, the more your confidence grows and the better your confidence. Longer foreplay's not only about satisfying a woman but about building confidence as a man as well. Don't try porn stunts, they rarely work 1st time. Don't use memorised moves, the excitement will erase your memory. Just be natural and go with the flow.

All the best

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