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How do I distance myself from my toxic siblings?

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Question - (8 May 2018) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2018)
A female India age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay so, it all began about a year ago. I've been having issues with both my elder and younger sisters.

Before my younger sister came along, my elder and I were super close. Atleast we were, about a year ago.

Now my you get sister is 12, and it's like they've banded together to make my life terrible. They bully me so much, and I've tried to keep my distance. Im a little introverted. And I tend to keep to myself distances from most people, but whenever they see me alone and in my own world, they come along and bully me even go as far as hitting me.

Being violent with me is not a new thing, I have anger issues and they know that I'll lose control, and then they blame it all on men. It's mostly my older sister with my younger one at her flank, once they even tore up all my homework which I had to submit in the next hour. And I had to redo it. I'm done trying to get things right.

We sleep in the same room, and when they think I'm asleep they talk behind my back and talk about how attention seeking I am, or how they just wanna slap me. They make fun of the way I talk, they say my boyfriend is extremely ugly and body shame me.

My parents don't know what's going on because my siblings never act this way Infront of them. I don't need them anymore. They're toxic.

All I ask is for ways to distance myself from them for the next five years or so. Please.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (9 May 2018):

aunt honesty agony auntTalk to your parents and tell them what is happening. Remember your parents are there for a reason so be open and honest with them. Are you over 18? If so then you are legally an adult and you can report them for violence if they are physically hurting you.

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