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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I live in a neighborhood with a lot of kids my age. A group of these kids and I are close; me, (14), a 12 year old girl, a sixteen year old boy, a thirteen year old boy, and an eleven year old boy. I recently found out that the 11 year old is completely infatuated with me, and he's not afraid to show it. He hits on me like an older guy would, and he touches me a lot. I start feeling uncomfortable around him and my friends because I feel like they think the whole thing is downright weird. He has attempted to kiss me, only resulting in my embarassment. To make matters worse, he's not the nicest of kids. He picks on other boys his age and torments a lot of people. I don't know how to stop him without him turning on me and making my life a living hell. Please help!!
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reader, ctds001 +, writes (1 July 2010):
Hey Honey,
How about telling him that you really like the group of friends as it is, that you would not consider going out with him because you see him like a brother.
You also need to tell him to stop touching you, as it makes you feel weird.
If he persists get firm with him, then threathen to tell he's parents.
Good luck x
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reader, QZ  +, writes (1 July 2010):
 Obviously this boy won't handle subtlety, so you need to be up front with him. Tell him right out you DO NOT share his feelings, they make you uncomfortable, and you do not appreciate him. He might get upset and pout for a while, but really that's the best way to go about it.
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