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writes:I'm finding things really tough at the moment, I've had a huge arguement with a friend of mine and I'm not sure if I want to make things up with her or not...Life is throwing so many challenges at me, and I can't deal with them all. - Work is stressing me out big time- There is a guy I've fallen in love with but don't know how to tell him- The saying 'alone in a crowd' really applies to me right now- My head is spinning with so much going aroundAhhhh life is difficult! How do I deal with it all? Reply to this Question |
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reader, samohir  +, writes (19 November 2007):
 My grandmom always said to me when i was younger: Life is a struggle and rare Luck, In struggle always persistent be... I dont know to which degree this is aplicable, but I ve taken this little sentence into consideration...
In a bit Christian way, I would say a bit Patience!
And when i think more clearly(im 24 and far from having completely my life settled down) but when looking back on my previous difficulties and the weight I put on them,Now its funny to me,so When im put in situation to see some ppl that are facing difficulties I had before, is like coming to say to me, Oh what a lucky guys they are! In what a Nice period they are!:)
So that the way it is... The stress is normal and im sure at some point of time You would smile on what now your facing...
I ve read it somewhere a replica on the question: Why the angles fly above? It was: Becouse they take themselves lightly...Just remmember on it when in hardships:)
Good Luck and Lots of fun
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (19 November 2007):
 Hey!
We're in the same wonderful age group where everything is a bit mental.
Work stressed the best of us out a lot of the time, you need to consider if it's the job you really want to be doing, if you could do anything else, what you could do at work to help, or simply is the stress worth it at the end of the month when payday rolls along?
If you aren't in a relationship with this guy, telling him you love him is a bad move, but asking him out for a drink or saying you like him, is always a good starter.
Your last sentence sums it all up perfectly, life is difficult! We all have to do it and at times one problem can make everything else seem so much worse, figure out which one is bothering you the most, give me as much detail as you can (feel free to message me) and I'll try to help. You'll often find that when one weight is lifted the others seem so much lighter
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