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writes: i have a trust issue with my fiancee and it is over a stupid kiss that someone gave her . when i asked the meaning of it she became very evasive and till that point we never had an arguement . the fact is i saw it and she denied it! if it was so meaningless why the sidestep in my question . since then this has been a major issue in my trust in her .a year after the incident she gave me an explanation .my question is why it took so long , how do i get over it she says i did nothing wrong ,if this is so how could she allow another man a kiss ,then walk away with him to be out of sight from others and it was repeated then they dissapeared for 20 min at which i am told nothing happened. what should i think,do how do i work thru this i really love her
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): if she cant tell the truth up front to your face on the spot at the very moment you catch her then im affraid its bad news.
it sounds very much like shes lied to you and if they disapeared for 20 minutes then it doesnt sound good.
you cant marry someone you dont trust, talk to her, about everything, if the first thing she does is look away, get snappy or avoid eye contact...then i think your trust is gone
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2006): hey,deary me,why was she kissing another man to begin with? i kno u love her..but u cant marry this lady untill u can fully trust her, i reckon that u should sit down n tell her exactly how u feel. my freind, u can marry this lady n spend a life time worrying about every little move she makes, or u can sort ur problem out now. tell her that u dont want her to be going off with another man, and make it clear that next time u wont accept any of this behaviour,explain to her how much u love her..sit down calmly n talk..no yelling,tell her u need her help for u to trust her again and would she be willing to do so.if all of this gets her angry,then i reckon u shud reconsider getting married. best of luck.freind x x keep us posted
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reader, eddie  +, writes (28 October 2006):
 You should tell us what her explanation was. That would make it easier to offer advice.
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