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*erewolfGirl
writes:Modnote: Your very long post was shortened as below is the crux of your question, which is clear,and is below. Your extensive account of prior events do demonstrate that you prefer girls and believe you are a Lesbian. But your question is the really important issue. And it is a good question.How do i come out to my mum?, because it will make things so much easier and my stress level will go down . sometimes , i just think of blurting out , randomly when me and her are alone " Mum , i'm a lesbian" , obviously i dont do it i think its time i did , because i'm sick and tired of being scared to come out of the closet to my own mother , she isn't against homosexuality , she absolutely fine with it. So , How do i come out of the closet to my mum? thanks for reading , sorry its long , but i hope/bet there's a person out there who knows exactly what i've been and going through , thankyou. :)
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reader, dee76 +, writes (31 October 2012):
Hi hun best advice i can give is just tell her, keep it plain n simple and be honest. I was 30 when i came out, had a husband n son and knew all my life i was gay but couldnt do it. I kept it plain n simple n just told people. You do what you need for you. It will be a shock for some and for others not so much. But the shock is more about you being different to whom they thought you was rather then that you are gay. I wish you all the very best with this and would really like to know how things go for you, good luck x
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reader, WerewolfGirl +, writes (30 October 2012):
WerewolfGirl is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyou, but you say its a phase, my question was shortened to make it clear , because i mentioned in the huge paragraph i typed up , all the things i've gone and going through, and that many people will say its a phase , but i know its not at all , i've never been attracted to boys , only girls. even when i was young. I also said that i've known since i was 11 , because i shared my first lesbian kiss with my second cousin, i know , you'd probably think... yuk!. But that's what happened , but anyway thankyou for answering , its a big help! :D
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (30 October 2012):
 I found these links for you. I hope this helps!
http://www.wikihow.com/Come-Out-As-a-Gay-or-Lesbian-Teen
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/gay-and-lesbian-well-being/201103/should-you-come-out-your-parents
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