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writes:I met this girl several months ago and she is one of the sweetest people I know. We've gotten very close as friends, but just recently, I can't stop thinking about her and want to become more than friends. I'm dying to tell her how i feel, but shes told me about a guy that she is kind of with that she spend part of last summer with, but he lives far away, and she never sees him. she has told me about times that hes treated her like crap, but beyond that theres nothing. I want to tell her that I dont understand how you can hold a relationship with someone purely over the phone without ever seeing them, and that instead we would be perfect together. I dont want to risk the friendship we have now, as she brightens my day every time i see her. Please tell me what I should do! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): Well all you can do is just tell her how you feel but that you don't want to loose the friendship if anything happened with you and see if she feels the same way.
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reader, faith_believe_love  +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Hi,.YOu've just said it you dont wanna risk your friendship with her..I know its hard thing to tell you that just keep all the feelings that you have for her.Come to think of it.When the two of you become more than friends and comes to the point that one of you loses interest this will end in breaking up right???which totally means that the two of you cant never be friends again or if not theres been a gap right there.SO heres the point,Do you really wanna tell her i mean would you go for it???Are you really sure that what you feel for her is for real???or is it just infatuation???Or would you rather keep her as a friend you said that she's the sweetest.If I were you i would do the latter.GOod luck!!!
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