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*aksi567
writes:I really like this girl at College but not entirely sure she feels the same. We get on really well and talk all the time. However, I have only known her for around three months because she started the course I'm doing at the same time. So, I'm not entirely sure what the best way to go about is. I have never asked a girl out on a date but really need to start somewhe. Another reason that bothers me is time and opportunity as I only see her twice a week at College. This restricts the opportunity I get. Ultimately. I don't want to run out of time because we finish in June. What would be the best way to ask and if not a date, any alternatives too speed things up. Although I don't want to be too full on and scare her away as we are starting to build a good friendship slowly and have the same career aspirations. She also studies the same subjects as me bar one, so that might help. I am 24 she is 20. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2014): Well, you don't have to ask this girl out on a date, you could suggest it maybe. you could text or email. or you could just go as friends, and see where it goes from there. p.s. don't let anything get you down.
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reader, oaksi567 +, writes (20 February 2014):
oaksi567 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I believe so and thanks for the ideas. ??
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (20 February 2014):
 So did the script help you? Are you able to visualize positive results?
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reader, oaksi567 +, writes (20 February 2014):
oaksi567 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIn the past, I had anxiety and depression. It did effect my confidence and knocked my self belief, so I found it hard to socialise with other people. It's only in the last two and half years, I have been able to get better. I'm a lot better now, just girls I need to work on.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 February 2014):
You say you talk all the time. So the next time you are talking, say, "Hey, June, I would love to talk more with you but I'm running late for something, can we meet up for coffee (or a snack/lunch/dinner, whatever makes sense) on Friday afternoon (evening, whatever makes sense)?"
Then, do the hard thing and wait for her response. If she can't do something Friday, she can either decline without offering an alternative, or she can decline, but with an alternative. And if she says, "yes" say "great, let me have your number! Thanks."
You say you have never asked a girl out on a date. Any reason why not?
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