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writes:There's a guy I like and I have been wondering whether to tell him I like him but I'm scared of rejection. I think he feels the same way... but I don't know what to say if he doesn't. How and what should I tell him? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have his number... lols.
no way you would know that
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reader, lotsofgiggles123  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 ok this is how : act like you just cowinsadently walk some what around him then try to start up a conversation then you say hes funny or something or complement him then ask him for his phone number or if you might know where the next place hes going hows bout you just cawinsadently come there!
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reader, ashlea +, writes (20 August 2008):
If u like him then just ask him. I have done + ive been in a relationship now for a year and a half + its still going great. We both love eachother loads. Dont b frightened of rejection cause at the end of the day its not the end of the world is it? Theres plenty more fish in the sea, and as they say if u dont ask, u dont get! Good luck x
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reader, xray2112  +, writes (2 August 2008):
Don't worry about being rejected my dear. Just ask him. Chances are he's thinking the same things and is dreading being rejected too. This is the number one reason why girls wonder why a guy won't ask her out. He's terrified she'll say no. So ask him.
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reader, MattUK +, writes (1 August 2008):
Try to think of your situation a different way. If you ask him and get a yes then great. If he turns you down then you're in the same situation as you are now. Looking at it that way, what do you have to loose.
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reader, xnickx +, writes (1 August 2008):
 While there is no magic way to tell him, there are minimal things you can do to increase your chances.
First don't fear rejection. You'll never know unless you try. Also, it'll make you more nervous than you are already going to be.
Next your leaving a few things out. It'll be easier to ask him out if you aren't good friends because no one wants to take the chance of ruining a good friendship. Next if he knows or you suspect he knows you like him, the best and easiest thing to do would to let him know you like him.
If he's not a good friend and he doesn't know, then just ask him to go somewhere with you, the park, the mall, a resturaunt (nothing too fancy, fast food place would work good) and not at first, but after talking for a while, tell him you have feelings for him, whatever the feelings are.
Note that i don't know the full situation and don't want to steer you down the wrong path and that this doesn't work for everyone. If you don't feel comfortable with this and don't think it'll work, don't do it.
If you want to ask me something else, just message me.
Hope it all works out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): gotta go for it as a male im used to having to make the first move in that kinda situatuon if your afraid of rejection you will find out realllly soon that if you dont take that initial leap because your scare of plumiting to your death, you will never fly. just gotta suck it up and go for it
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): ive got a simmilar problem and my best friends are all telling me to just go for it and whatever happens they'll be behind me, so find a friend to back you up and just ask him you'll never know what will happen untill you try :D
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reader, StudentOfLife +, writes (1 August 2008):
 No matter how you'll tell him that you love him, there's still a possibility that he will reject you. There's no magic way for a guarantee yes.
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