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writes:im a student,2nd year at college and i really like this guy. i never really noticed him at first my friends spotted him staring at me.7 months have gone and he hasnt come me up to me,whenever he walks past my heart skips a beatand when gazes in my eyes he seems lost and i could sit f ages just daydreamin about him and i really do like him.he's too shy i think because he recently got set up with a gal who was hes best gal mates friend,he split up with her with-in two weeks i always catch him straing at me which made the girl hes was going out with insecure but i dont understand what to do??? i want him sooo badly i want to get to know him. my primary schoool friend whom ive known for 12 years is his friend but i don't wana approach him and look desperate! help me please! shall i forget it or let nature take its course ive only got 2 months left.....
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (24 April 2008):
 omg hun i am in the same situation like you..i havent gone and approched him as yet..did u speak to him..if u wana know more u can mail me
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reader, previasc96  +, writes (23 April 2008):
You must put your romantic girly feelings aside, and approch him as a fellow student. Ask him were to find the health department or something. When he answers your question, say " Thanks! You're really helpful!" Then ask him what's his name. After that just be like " maybe i'll see you around" It's that simple
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): Yeah, it sounds like he is shy. If you don't want to approach him, just make yourself more available to be approached, sit next to him at lunch, etc. I have one guy friend who was really shy too. The woman who is now his wife had to get his attention by blocking his way up the stairs between classes. lol Some guys are just that way, but deep down they can be really nice, sweet, sensitive, caring men. He may also be shy because he's been rejected too many times. Try giving him a, "Hi! How's it going?" sometime and see how he responds. Best wishes!~heidi
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reader, superbunny + ♥, writes (23 April 2008):
 If you share a mutual friend you've got one way of getting to know him! Explain the situation to your friend and perhaps they could organise like a night out or something with loads of this lad's mates and a load of your mates - but nothing formal, just casual so you can chat and just have a laugh. It's probably best to let nature take it's course - from past experiences, trying to forget normally just makes the obssession worse! x
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reader, salvation + ♥, writes (23 April 2008):
stop worrying so much and just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime you first have to establish a relationship befor you take it a step further. If ya need more advice just pm me i'd be happy to help.
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