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writes:This is kind of a follow up to yesterdays "I met this guy on the internet..." question. So far my boyfriend and I haven't talked properly about what we're going to do (at the moment he wont talk but he's texted a few times) but I'm making myself ill now. I can't eat, I feel sick and I feel so tired. I keep thinking about how I felt just a week ago and how sure I felt about him. I don't understand why I've had such a dramatic change of heart and I really don't want to hurt him. What's wrong with me? Why did I get so loved up so quickly and why have I had such a turn around now? I don't understand myself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much for the reply. I was in a bad place at the time and hearing such a positive and understanding opinion from an unbiased person was a real comfort. My boyfriend and I split up a few days after I posted my question and it felt like the right thing to do. I've had a problem very recently with him making me feel guilty (accusing me of leading him on etc etc) but it's only confirmed that it was the right thing to do. Thanks again
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): I went back and read your post from yesterday. You said you have doubts about him. You need to pay attention to those doubts, certainly don't even think about moving in together at this point!But at any rate, you said he won't talk to you right now, so what is there to "talk properly about what we're going to do"? Doesn't sound as if you are going to be talking about anything, properly or otherwise!Therefore, why are you giving yourself so much grief over this? You have doubts, and they are legitimate ones. Sometimes things don't work out the way we would like.If he begins talking with you again, then will be time enough to decide what you are going to do - if anything.Meantime, try to get some sleep, and start eating food you like and is tasty! Don't worry about hurting HIM! Perhaps find a counsellor to discuss this with, but in any case, don't let this prevent you from enjoying your life! Not worth it.
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