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writes: I am 18. My relationship with my girlfriend ended with her leaving and I we have remained friends which is cool. From dating my ex- girlfriend I have gotten to know her mom well. She is a very nice woman and very attractive. The other night I gave her a rub down. It was kind of spontaneous but it seemed to relax her and she seemed to enjoy it very much. It also gave us a chance to talk more which I enjoyed. I also enjoyed the feeling of her warm neck and smooth back through her top. After it was over she thanked me with a passionate kiss. I think that she may enjoy another rub down. I would like to plan for her to receive a massage. One that is more planned and less spontaneous. What advice do you have about letting her know that I would like to give her a gift of a massage? I think that she may like a full body massage. What info/advice about massage techniques and tips do you have? What part of her body should I start with? I would like to create an atmosphere that would be romantic and would provide a place for her just to relax and enjoy. I am considering music, candles, or by a fireplace. What info/advice do you have about a location for giving her a massage? I think that she may enjoy the feeling of a massage more if she was in the nude. The skin to skin contact. I also would enjoy seeing her in the nude. How could I ask if or suggest that she may enjoy the massage experience more if she was in the nude? I have thought that she may enjoy showering (by herself) before the massage. However, I don’t want to suggest that she smells. What would you recommend?Last time I gave her a massage it was more spontaneous rather than planned. She thanked me with a passionate kiss. I would like more passionate kisses. How can I let her know this? Would it be ok to work kisses into a massage? At what point do you suggest?I would really like to have sex with this beautiful woman. However, I don’t want her to think that the only reason I am giving her a massage is for sex. I really want to give her the gift of a massage for the sake of her enjoyment and relaxation. Could I ask if she is interested in sex? How and at what point could I make this request? There is a difference between being interested in sex and interested in sex with a particular person. How could I be sure she is interested in sex with me not just sex in general. How could I let her know of my interest in sex with her without putting her on the spot?
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reader, belladonna123  +, writes (24 August 2008):
Just curious, but don't you think it would be awkward since it is your ex-girlfriends mom?
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