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writes:hey, this wil lprobably seem like quite a lame question compared to more important ones. I seem to find a girl on msn via myspace of chatrooms who i really liek we both get oon well trade numbern details etc go on cam to one another but the distance is alwayys a killer factor.. how is it i can gte on and *succed* online but can succed witha girl in the real world. am 17/m/ukwrite back please
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (7 August 2007):
 i was actually discussing this with a girl online last night. I think it's so much easier to connect with somebody and (so long as they are being honest, of course) find out what kind of person they are.My advice would be find somebody who lives nearer to you. You could talk to them online and if things go ok, maybe you could meet them then, that way most of the arkwardness will have been plucked out of the air. Even if they aren't local, you can still have a good realtionship (I for one kept a long distance relationship going for over 2 years).
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reader, mgirl  +, writes (7 August 2007):
I agree with Irish49. Stay away from the computer! You've just got to get out there. I read once that confidence is about half of attraction and it's so true.
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reader, Irish49  + ♥, writes (7 August 2007):
 A lot of young people form relationships easier, online, because of the false sense of confidence and security they get than having to meet in real life. And talking online, is not as much work, is it? Just some typing, turning on a web cam, sometimes, and chatting. No one knows who you are, in a sense. They just believe what you tell them about yourself, which could be anything worth embellishing. No awkward face to face reality. Usually the long distance makes you and them feel safe too because many people know, the chances of meeting a person in real life can be very unlikely. I suggest you step out and away from that computer, build up your confidence and get out there...and meet real, live, in-person females. Learn to have faith in yourself and just be a genuine, decent guy. You will find someone in real life, you just have be patient, work harder and get out there and do it. Good luck, guy..now get out there and charm the females in the real world!
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