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writes:I met this guy "greg" online about two and a half weeks ago. We met the second day we talked and went out three nights in a row. He lives 3 and a half hours away at school but was raised where I live at. He comes home in march. We really hit it off but he's always so busy and rarely has time to talk. We talk every day but not much and sees me every time he comes down which is once or twice a month. It was all fine until he said he loved me and we're now dating but he didn't seem very happy about the title. How can you be too busy for someone you care so deeply about? Please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all so much for your answers! He came down and reminded me he does care. I think he's just not a phone person. Hopefully we will be in a long beautiful relationship. I truely appreciate all the advice I really think I wouldve made a mistake without it.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 How do you mean he didn't seem very happy about the title? Do you still talk every day and see each other twice a month? because if so you are doing pretty well considering this is a long distance relationship. Some people don't even get that much.
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reader, chronowind +, writes (17 July 2010):
well as much as he may care about you in the end he still has to go through his daily life. No guy drops everything and everything they have for a girl. he just has other things going on and you should be able to understand that his life doesn't revolve around you and its clear he makes the effort to talk to you, however short the conversation may be. you cant expect him to drop his responsibilities just to see you more often or talk to you longer. don't let him being busy bother you , just make the time that you guys do spend together really nice.
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