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How can we get the spark back?

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Question - (14 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

dear cupid my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now hes in jail right now he'll be getting out next year i am gona wait for him i love him very much but he says there is something missing its not the same as before and he is right i think it might be me i tend to put a wall up at times and dont completely open up what can i do to show him that he has all my love and full support and how can we get that special spark back?

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A female reader, KjS United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2011):

KjS agony auntIt might be, that you're not spending any time together since you have been apart.. I mean quality bf and gf time alone. I think when he gets out.. That is what you'll need to do.. Tell him how much you love him.. You probably can't show much during visiting times... But try something new and exciting with him, maybe a romantic meal and a romantic night in. You can write to each other couldn't you?? You could send him a peom or something.. Or when you see him.. Tell him how much you miss, love and stand by him. He might need some reassuring nown again.. Try to break down that wall you have, don't show him any sad feelings, show him you're happy and show him with that smile how you will be there for when he gets out. Hope this helps xx Good Luck xx

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