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writes:I'm so screwed up at the moment, I don't really know what to do. I'm being bullied mentally by people who I thought were my friends. They ignore me, blank me out, refuse to talk to me, make little snide comments that only I would understand why they say them. I thought it would stop after a week or so but it hasn't. It's really starting to affect my work and concentration, and I don't know what to do.I think I'm sliding into depression but I'm not sure...at times I find things hard to deal with, and the simplest of tasks has me bursting into tears on occasions. I'm not sleeping at night for worrying. I'm in love with a guy who doesn't know, and I don't know what to do about that. I really want something to happen but how can it when I'm such a mess at the moment?!? Argh this is all too much! Need some advice please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the advice, I really appreciate it. Things are much better now. I've 'dumped' my so called 'friends'
Time to move on!
Thank you to everyone who helped me, it's really appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): sit back and concider are they relly your friends and if there making comments about you then end the frendship and totaly blank them out like they do. Fammily are more important so try and talk to your mother, farther, brothers or sisters more while you are looking for new friends hun. But as for the guy you should let him no how you feel about him defently because he probably will help you and you need a shoulder right now hun.
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reader, chocalated30  +, writes (29 November 2007):
First of all those aren't your friends,Because they wouldn't do those kind of things to you.You need to take some time to yourself and think do i want these type of friends who makes fun ofmeand messes with my head? no,i dont think so.You want to make things happen with your boyfriend pause and clear your mind first,One situation at a time.
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reader, Jez_rocks  +, writes (29 November 2007):
i feel that they are not your friends and that maybe you shuld start looking for new ones. and i know that this may sound really corny and you may be thinking that you would do it, but talk to them about it. if you can find your self to do that then ingore them, or agree with what they are saying. i use to when my so called friends did that with me i would agree when they said i was stupid, and they did it for a few weeks after that tand then it stoped. so go with the guy, and you never know you might even get them jealous.
don't let them distract you from your school or any other activities, as you need school so much, so you can get a good job and later in life you will be so much better of then them coz you are worth it!
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