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dafni
writes:i want to get back with my ex!we were together for a month but now that i saw him again,i miss him!we broke up after my decision and i don't even remember why i told him to break up!he is my dream man,and we had so much fun together!i really want him back!he probably won't want me because after i told him to break up,i started a relationship with someone else,and he probably hates me because of that,because i think he liked me a lot..he probably play with me if we ever get together again!..i don't want this to happen!..help!...
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (11 December 2007):
If he really cared for you then chances are he still does. If the breakup was your decision then you have to be the one to set things right.
I think that letting him know you are still his friend is ok. You could possibly suggest going out sometime for a casual dinner or to a movie. I am sure that if he is still interested he will catch on that you are interested too.
Being a friend fist and taking your time in getting too close to quickly could have it's advantages. You will be able to tell if he is receptive to your feelings in time.
Remember though if he goes for it be sure it's what you want before you get too involved again. You certainly don't want to hurt him again. If he is your dream man then you need to get your head straight and no game playing.
Best wishes and Godspeed.
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reader, keith5 +, writes (10 December 2007):
you should try talking to him again. you need to be his friend or you will never be in a good solid relationship. if you can be his friend and you become happier, than things will kick off.
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