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How can I trust me feelings for the guy that left me and our child high and dry?

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Question - (30 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *by writes:

My boyfiend can not do anything to help my son and I. I love him for no reason,but he always tell me that he is not a jerk because he left me for 18 months and come back to me now. I do not take it as worthy just for coming back to me,but he think i should because many other girls love him. Is this a good behavior from him to think he makes me queen by coming back? I feel i might not love him in the future ;but he was my first and i think that might have some impact on my emotional life.I am afraid to leave him because i love him so much now,but i am thinking how unworthy he is to me.

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2011):

tou are worth so much more he thinks you are supposed to be gratefull for him coming back to you it should be the other way around he should be grateful for you taking him back. i don.t think men like this ever change if you don,t love him i would tell him you don,t want to be with him he will only hurt you again it doesnt sound like he has changed

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A female reader, GeeGee255 United States +, writes (30 June 2011):

GeeGee255 agony auntDo not let him back into your heart or your life until you are sure you can trust him not hurt you again. He should be willing to prove his love to you not expect you to be grateful just because he came back. That's not enough for you anymore. I hope he is at least giving you money for the baby. If he is not I wouldn't give him the time of day until he mans up to his responsibilities.

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