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How can I tell my sister in law to stop discussing these things with my husband?

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Question - (17 August 2015) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 August 2015)
A female India age 30-35, *an674 writes:

"hi, my husband's sister feels possessive about him, they are very close and my husband is a doctor.

she talks about bra, nipples and takes suggestion from him about sex, it is normal to have such talks even when I said I'm feeling discomfort by her words

how can I tell her to stop discussing about such stuff to my husband

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A female reader, san674 India +, writes (19 August 2015):

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thanks for all the replies, i told her and my husband that she has to c a gynaecologist for these kind of problems cause I'm very possessive about my husband and don't like my husband to hear these kind of stuff from her, and even after marriage he changes his clothes in front of her which is annoying to me,

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (18 August 2015):

Honeypie agony auntJust ask your HUSBAND to have these chats with his sister in private as you don't particularly like to hear about it.

I honestly see nothing REALLY wrong in two sibling being open about the subject of sex. With him being a doctor, I bet he at times hears "worse" at work.

However, that doesn't mean they NEED to have these conversation at the dinner table or in front of you.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (17 August 2015):

Tisha-1 agony aunt"Hey, I know you two are super close and that you feel comfortable talking about all kinds of things but I have to let you know that it makes me very uncomfortable. In the future, I'd prefer that you have these conversations about sex and intimate body parts not in my presence. Thank you for respecting my modesty and not embarrassing me further."

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (17 August 2015):

So_Very_Confused agony aunthave you discussed with your HUSBAND that this bothers you?

would it bother you if it was his BROTHER having this conversation with him?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2015):

it is not uncommon for the brother sister relationship to be quite a close one and it is not unusual for these kind of conversations to take place.From your sister in laws point of view who is better to ask as he is medically qualified and a doctor.I expect your brother is used to being informal medical adviser on many occassions for family and friends and he goodheartedly participates in finding the correct answer.They will think it very odd if you object,particukarly as you will expect him to assess the childrens health now and again.He is your husband but you cant expect to lock his mind away from others,particularly as he may have good advice to offer.

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