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writes:My best friend, F, has just come out as a lesbian. I'm perfectly fine with this, as I feel that a person should be true to themselves. My problem is her girlfriend. This girl, K, who I am also friends with, has a number of personality issues. While she can be really kind and understanding, she can also be a total bitch, and always has to be the centre of attention. If she doesn't get her own way she goes into a massive sulk and lashes out at all the people around her, including F. This really hurts F, obviously, and causes her a lot of grief and worry. I want to tell F that she shouldn't be in a relationship with someone who just causes her pain half of the time. But I'm terrified that F will hate me and never speak to me again, as it seems she really likes, if not loves, K, despite all the horrible things K does sometimes.I just don't know what to do. Can any of you help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2007): all you can do is let her make the decision for her self and just be her friend during this time you know?
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