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How can I tell if she's just bizarre with her interactions or if she actually likes me?

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Question - (20 October 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, so I have this friend in High-School that I see everday during passing periods. (I'm busy during lunches so I can't hang out with her.)

Every single time we see each other we smile, hug, and have small talk. Things for the most part seem normal- except for the way she hugs me...It's very "touchy-feely." For example, she often hugs me around my low waist and slides her fingers up near my breasts when parting or she hugs me from my neck, and drags her hand in between my cleavage in a very oddly slow, almost seductive manner. Every hug we give also seems to be very...Awkwardly long. No joke, it's almost like she's clung onto me...But I never mention any of this to her, I just ignore it.

Anyways, I'm wondering, does it sound like this girl likes me? I myself am bisexual and would have nothing wrong with it, but it's very confusing.

Continuing my thoughts... here are yet some other things adding to my suspicions:

-(I think she knows I'm bisexual or is at least under the impression I am. I often wear rainbows and gay pride accessories like wristbands.) This one time, she was asking if I had any gum, and I told her no. While we were discussing me having no gum for nearly five minutes, she was holding up my arm, stroking my gay-pride wristband with her index finger, yet again in a nearly seductive manner (Or maybe I'm seriously just imagining BS), dozing off at it constantly and then staring into my eyes.

-Whenever I'm in a group and she wants to pull me away from other people, she always holds my hand with her's and uses her other hand to somewhat caress mine.

-She often compliments my smile and eyes, comparing me to movie characters she finds "Adorable" and saying she's surprised "everyone" isn't entranced and in love with my "Cheeky" facial expressions.

I dunno. Maybe I'm just reading too deep into things, especially because she's TAKEN. Speaking of which, she often calls me up to talk about her relationship problems, which I don't mind so much, but it drives me crazy when I swear she flirts with me sometimes whether through dialog or interactions. (If it makes any difference, she's told me she's bisexual too.)

How can I tell if she's just bizarre with her interactions or if she actually likes me?

It's driving me insane!

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A female reader, Shelld93 United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2010):

I Think she really likes you you should take her on a date and hook up have some fun :) x good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010):

when you're gay, you can tell others are gay, I'm sure she knows you're gay and she's been blatantly flirting with you

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A female reader, oliviababes United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2010):

oliviababes agony auntI think she does like her and you should go out with her, she seems like a lovely girl, you should ask her out i'm sure she likes you and would say yes, go on girl, do it for us lesbians! xxx

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