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How can I tell if she's a lesbian?

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Question - (22 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *lownCupid writes:

Im a lesbian.I discovered i was a lesbian when i was 13.im 18 now.I have fallen for this woman.i think she is about 32.I want to know how do you to tell if a woman is a lesbian.I know how to tell if a girl is a lesbain but not a woman.

I applied for this job she works at.

everytime i go to that store she works at I see her.

My gut tells me shes not married or has kids.well for 1 she does not have a ring on her finger.

she has short carrot top red hair.I have an obsession with carrot tops..I don't fall for anyone so quickly.

buti have very stong feelings for her.though i know its not love.its a very strong crush.

she wears guys clothes,looks like a dyke,she looks like a guy from the back and walks like a guy.

I told my dad one tim when we were in the store while she was behind the iel.storing food on the shelves.i asked my dad do u think shes pretty..he says no.I say I think she is..shes hot..I think she might of heard me when i walked away she looked at me..

how do i tell if a woman is a lesbain?

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A female reader, advice angel United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2010):

advice angel agony auntthere is no way of knowing shes a lesbian,all yu can do is maybe ask her workers,or try and find some info out about her then see where things go from there :) good luck x

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A female reader, purplewasabi United Kingdom +, writes (23 March 2010):

purplewasabi agony auntUnfortunately there's no way to tell. xD People can't really carry around badges that indicate their sexual preferences after all.

The best thing I think you could do is talk to her. Maybe ask her about some items in the shop. You could slip in a flirtatious compliment to her - about her hair (mention you love red hair) and watch her reaction. If she's taken aback and acts in a hostile manner, perhaps she is affronted by the female attention ? You could get a male friend to ask her out, or flirt with her in the same manner; if she responds well to him, perhaps she isn't. Or she could swing both ways !

Of course you have to be aware that the age difference is pretty large, and even if this woman is a lesbian, she might not be single or willing to date someone quite a bit younger than herself.

Best of luck, sorry I cannot be more helpful.

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