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How can I tell if my doctor likes me?

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Question - (20 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I've been seeing an Osteopath for chronic illness, we're both single but his office is filled with groupies and he seems really popular with women.

He's very attentive to me and his hands are ALL OVER me, that's osteopathy (but how is it not erotic?). Our conversations are very fun, he's relaxed and even used the f word in conversation (something along the lines of WTF?)

Both of us are into spirituality and stellar lifestyle habits like whole food diet and exercise.

He's said a few things that I find intriguing, like if I can't afford tx he will see me free.

I'm not sure if he has a GF but how can I tell if he's interested in me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010):

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Thanks for your answers. I know it's not against the law for doctors to date their patients. Within reason you can't come on sexually to a patient but you can ask them on a date. I'm a nurse and have dated a couple of doctors I've been to as a patient.

I have another doctor friend who thinks it sounds promising with this guy. But I really cannot tell because he's just so wonderful with me, so maybe he's just a great guy?

I guess the next step is to see if he asks me questions that don't have anything to do with my health. And if he talks about himself more, which he's done a little so far.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010):

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It's not against the law to date patients, I'm a nurse and have dated other doctors I've seen. Also I've known people who've married their doctors.

I talked to a doctor friend today about it and she thought it sounded promising. But I don't want to ask him out so I'm just going to keep sussing out the situation and see if it goes anywhere. I'm seeing him 2 X a week now.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2010):

It's illegal, and he can lose his job should anything happen between you. So it's best not to ask this question, or that will be the end of him.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (20 October 2010):

dirtball agony auntAsk him out. I have a feeling that his flirty personality is part of his job though. That's part of the reason he's so successful and has these "groupies." Don't be surprised if it is all part of the job to him.

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