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13-15,
*hikketo
writes:My head is so messed up just now. Im 13 almost 14 with a guy presuring me into having sex with him. I have a man who follows me about i dont no why and my parents are geting divorced. Some times i just feel like giving up i dont know what to do. Ho can i stop these feeling from ruining my life please help:(
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reader, CaringGuy + ♥, writes (19 October 2009):
Your mum is clealy going through a lot of stress at the moment herself. Is there someone who you can talk to at school? And don't hate yourself. You've done nothing wrong and you're a great girl. Give yourself time and give yourself some love. you do need to talk to someone, so try a teacher or a school counsellor. But don't give up.
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reader, Chikketo +, writes (19 October 2009):
Chikketo is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni told my mum how i felt. she says its my problem and that she has her own problems too. i hate myself i just want to curl up and diasapear
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reader, lilly123 + ♥, writes (19 October 2009):
 ok first of all tell sombody about the man that is following you because you never no what might happen next seriously.
secondly your first time should not be because you are being pressured into it, you will always remember it and you dont wont to remember it being with somone you did not even wont. You know when you ready and you should wait untill then if you dont you will regret it trust me dont do it.
talk to your mum and dad about whats going on right now with their divorce and everything else they will be able to help you deal with it.
Goodluck
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reader, CaringGuy + ♥, writes (19 October 2009):
Don't give up. You're at that age where life becomes seemingly difficult, so just hang in there, and it will be okay.
First of all, in this country (UK), it is illegal to have sex before you are 16. Do not do it. And don't ever let a guy pressurize you into it. The guy you are with has no respect for your feelings if he's pressurizing you.
Next, if there is a guy following you, make someone aware of it (your mum, maybe). He could be an admirer, or someone who is obsessed, and you don't need that.
You must talk to your parents about how you feel over their divorce, or perhaps a counsellor. They will be very worried about you at this moment (even if it doesn't look at if they are), and they'll be able to help you get all those feelings out into the open so you can face them and understand them. Perhaps tell a friend how you feel, just so there is someone who understands. Most importantly, don't give up. Life will get better. :) Lots of luck.
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