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How can I stop myself having an erection when we're together?

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Question - (31 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, I'm gay/bi/confused and haven't told anyone. I'm kind of in love with my best friend, my heart skips a best when I see him, when he talks I just want to kiss his lips, he makes me horny and is part of every fantasy, wet dream or wank.

My problem is, we're both going away together in a couple of weeks. We're going to New York and I found out on Friday we'll both be sharing a bed for the week.

Now I imagine this is going to cause problems, sharing a bed - half naked, getting dressed, showering etc. I was wondering if anyone knew how not to get an erection, is there anything i can do to prevent the inevitable?

I don't want him knowing anything.

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A female reader, GoGreen126 United States +, writes (1 February 2010):

I know advice from a teenage girl isn't what you're looking for, but I thought it'd be right to point out that you're aiming to deceive your best friend. I know it's complicated, and I know you're confused, but maybe being up front would have it's advantages?

Just a thinking point--

best of luck

--GG

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