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How can I stop my "friends" from picking on me all the time?

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Question - (16 June 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ever since i can remember i was always the one my friends picked on, at first I thought it was them just joking around but it sort of became a thing, if anyone wanted anything they would ask me, little things like if they wanted me to get them some water because they couldn't be bothered to get up and get it themselves and buying people lunch because they forgot their lunch cards. the thing is every girl in my class is in a big group and if i leave them i have nobody else to turn to and literally everyone treats me like rubbish and nobody in other classes can work out why they do this, they all say its because they're jealous but recently all they do is try and get me to do things that i really don't want to do and get me to do things for them.

i really hate them but i cant really seem to get out since i have to see them, talk to them and do their work for them every day all day. i've tried to speak up but they just all go against me and in the end i have to do it and they just laugh. what do i do, there's literally nobody else in my class except for the boys who all think i'm weird because i'm not "allowed" to talk to them when they're around and if i do the girls cut me off and make me sound like a weirdo. so yeah again--what do i do?

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A female reader, stingbat United Kingdom +, writes (17 June 2011):

hi hun, i can only say that im sorry for the way that you are being treated right now. these people arent your friends hun they are bullies. you say that other people in other classes have noticed so why dont you be friends with them. i think that you should try and keep away from this bunch of "friends" as much as you can as it sounds like they are making you do thing that you feel uncomfy with. is there a teacher that you can talk to or a modorator? in my kids school they have a "buddy" that you can talk to that interacts with the teachers on your behalf. anyway whatever is in your school this needs reporting. dont worry you will only have to say it once and you will be believed. it will stop. so say it tommorrow ok. dont be a victim stand up for you ok report it. you can do it be strong ok im here if you need me stingbat x

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