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writes:As a single guy how can I stop wanting to date every hot girl I meet?! Its distracting, seriously. Not to mention the ones whose numbers I get we become friends and all the while in my head I'm thinking about how gorgeous they are and how I wanna date them. Is there a cure for this? Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (23 March 2011):
 Well I think "natasia" has the better advice. Focus on one gal. The only other cures for not wanting to "date" hot women, which I presume really means to "screw" them, is to stay home alone or turn gay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): Date them?Who wants to date them?I just want to have sex with them all.But, seriously, as a prior poster alludes to, it's not having sex that is the true challenge or measure of a man, it's being able to have a good relationship (with the emphasis on "good"). A good relationship can really squelch the desire for other women a lot, because you focus on the "one" that gives you something that "the many" can't give you. When I was younger I had a rather fixed image of what a "hot" woman was and her age was a factor. As I got older I found myself finding women of all sizes and shapes sexier and sexier, and the range of "hot" was much broader, and the age of women I was attracted to became much broader as well. But, at the same time I was married and the relationship was becoming more and more rewarding and despite finding vastly more women being attractive, I was at the same time far more content with "just one".As for bad relationships, yeah, bad relationships are easy to have....you can have all those you want, so you can have many regrets later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): Castration.
Don't worry, get your heart broken a bit more, and you won't want to date hot women anymore. You'll just want to have sex with them.
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reader, Abella +, writes (23 March 2011):
 looking for a real challenge? develop depth to a real relationship, build some solid trust, empathy and rapport to hold the attention of a woman who truly moves you, over a twelve month duration.
And remain faithful during the above relationship
This is more work, but more rewarding than a year of dates with 100 hot girls who you only get to know at a superficial level.
Hope you enjoy the challenge.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 Get one woman and spend a lot of time in bed with her. Simple. Focus your energies.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 March 2011):
As a woman once said to me "there's no cure for the male penis" - so you can't really control the fact that you want to date them.
Best thing to do is find a woman you like and actually date her. That'll cure the problem.
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