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How can I stop being paranoid when my man goes out ?

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Question - (31 March 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

How can I trust a man...and stop being so parinoid when he goes out with his friends ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007):

You are worried that when his with his friends (without his girlfriend) then he looks as if he is single and many girls would start flirting with him and that this will lead to more. But what you have got to remember is that in the end he chose to be with you, and to have you as a girlfriend. So stop worrying and start trusting him. Trust is important in a relationship and without it relationship can be ripped apart. You don't want to happen to your relationship do you?

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A female reader, ariel United Kingdom + , writes (1 April 2007):

ariel agony auntUgh!! blah!! Trust.......Its hard to through caution to the wind and you are not alone Anon. BUT wiithout trust how do you expect him to be happy?

When the traffic light goes green ,you trust that the cars will stop at the red light,just like when you switch on the light in the dark,you trust it will come on.So too should you believe that he won't break your trust.

Look he chose to love you ,it is by free will that he is in your relationship.If you are going to try and control every situation,your relationship will not work.

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (1 April 2007):

nologo agony auntYou need to understand your situation better.

This question shows difference between you two.

He is more outgoing than you, that's why friends play a prominent part in his life.

"How can I trust a man...when he goes out with his friends?"

When you say something like this it means that you EXPECT him to be unfaithful to you.

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