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How can I start talking to her without looking like an idiot?

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Question - (28 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *olydiver1 writes:

Hey anyone and everyone :P

Basically my situation here is that there is a girl on my bus to college in the mornings who I really can't stop thinking about but we have never said a word to each other and I'm not the most confident of people, rather shy in fact. I'm ok when I've known someone for a week or 2 then I'm open and myself but anyone new I just can't talk to or if I do I end up mumbling and not exactly making myself look cool.

The other problem with it is that I've been noticing her for like haalf a year or so now so I'm worried that even if I do talk to her I've left it too late and it just makes things more awkward to start chatting. If anyone has any ideas how I could try talking to her without looking a bit of an idiot I'd be grateful. I'd also like to know how to in the words of Mr T (recoop) :P if she wasn't interested or said she's not single or something. That's one of my biggest fears as to why I don't really get in and just talk. Anyways thanks to anyone who has any advice or anything.

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A female reader, ladycharm United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2009):

ladycharm agony aunti was basically in the same situation with a boy in my high school we sat next to each other for 4 years i really liked him and everyone around us knew how we felt but i guess were to afraid to admit we were from different crowds and i never told him because i was to afraid to tell him and its the biggest regret of my life so my advice to you be a don't be afraid to tell her how you feel even if you look like a idiot at least she knows then its up to her if she really likes you it really wont matter in fact she may even find it cute lol just think about it do you really want to look back and think i should have told her good luck

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntHi, Hello, Good Morning! followed up by a question like: how are you? Wow that was difficult! Come on you have been at the same bus stop for a year? She has probably noticed you staring at her awkwardly and has been waiting for you to say Hi, for at least 9 of those months!

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