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How can I spice up our sex life and make things more intense?

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Question - (11 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi guys! me and my boyfriend really want to spice up our sex life and try out different things, so im after some tips or past experiences that have been good! good foods to useee? or positions or foreplay that might make things more intenseee? literally anything! thankyou!

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A female reader, rgreen120 United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2010):

rgreen120 agony auntFoods: Chocolate, strawberries, cream, angel delight!, rock, icecream, you can use anything really, whatever tickles your fancy!

Foreplay, spanking, tying eachother up

or maybe just having sex in different areas of the house, outside the house? Using sex toys? New underwear?

Find out eachothers boundaries. Such as, how far you would both go or how experimental you are.

As for positions, buy a karma sutra! You can get them from ann summers or cheaper online!

Try lubrications or role plays? Role plays are always fun. School girl or doctor? You can get outfits for that type of thing too!

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A female reader, trigger18 United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2010):

hey,

Me and my boyfriend were having the same trouble... wot you need to do depending on circumstances is mix up where you have your fun like in other rooms of the house or taking a trip to a hotel for a night. My boyfriend has been saying to take risks and just do things on impulse. for instance if your boyfriend does alot of cooking or playing on the xbox, try talking dirty and say how wud u like me to...? think of something that he enjoys like a bj or something. Also ask him to do things like that too to make sure that your needs are dealt with too. the fun bit with mixing up where you have your fun is the fact its not in the bedroom and not routine either. if you live with someone like your parents or house mastes then theres the risk of getting caught too. some enjoy the feeling and makes sex more enjoyable some dont so its to whatever your taste is.

hope i helped xxx

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A female reader, fallen-imperfection United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2010):

HII :)

Well first of all I dont want to sound like a freak or anything, but have you considered bringing another girl into the relationship? I did that once and it was completely awsum...as long as u dont argue with ur man after for getting with her, as that wouldnt be fair.

Secondly... Ann summers do great body paints, the chocolate 1 isn't so nice, but the others r ok. Or you could just use fresh cream and eat it off eachother.

Ok so im a big Ann Summers freak and you can buy mini play packs, where you get the mini cok-rings and clit vibrators, they always spice up sex a little, without going to extremes...and you could buy an outfit and new underwear, that you think your bf will like (nt tht many guys complain) but usually stockings, heels, suspenders and a thong, and a basque works :) hope this was helpful ;) xx

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