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How can I slow down my sex drive?

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Question - (31 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2009)
A female United States age 18-21, *uestionablegrl writes:

Me and my boyfriend have a WONDERFUL sex life.

I almost can not get enough.

I ALWAYS want to have sex.

We'll have sex, and then 30minutes later, i want MORE! I'm so scared to tell him, b/c he looks so worn out...i don't want him to reject me, and be like "not right now..."

Everytime we go on dates, i'm so excited for the sex, like...if we go any where else- i get so cranky..b/c all i want to do, is sex! Even if i just give him a blowjob in the car...that'll satisfy me.

i love him dearly, and i know for a fact its not lust.

I only see him once a week, so...we are really..loving on the phone and such, but when im with him in person, i just want to jump on him..

Is that weird? what should i do, to slow down my sex drive? B/c my legs begin to shake when we are at his mother;s house, b/c all i want to do, is have pricey with him, so i can have sex.

Grrrrr.

i know its not the only thing i should worry about...b/c..hes such an amazing boyfriend, and he does such SWEET things, and i really love him, and i reallyyyyyy honestly know its not lust.

but i want sex way too much.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009):

Ah, young love. I remember this period of a relationship, too. It's normal, particularly when you're in love likethis. Enjoy it, and do it as often as you want to!

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A female reader, katatonik United States +, writes (31 December 2008):

katatonik agony auntI'm guessing this is at least partly due to the fact that you only see him once a week and are repressing your sexual urges the rest of the time while you wait to see him again. Unfortunately, there is no real solution that I can think of on his end...if he doesn't want sex, you can hardly pressure him into it or make him perform.

If you don't masturbate currently but have no objections to the idea I would suggest this as an alternative sexual outlet between occasions you are going to see him. Good luck =]

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