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writes:I've been going out with a guy for about 5 months now, and it's got to the stage where I'm fairly sure it's love. However, I'm not sure I'm ready to actually say the words yet, but I was wondering, what everyone thinks are the best ways to SHOW someone you love them without actually saying the words? I don't mean just sexual things, as we have a very intense physical relationship already, but just other every day things? Any ideas? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2008): I think that hugs, and holding their hand in public are nice things to do to show somebody you love them. Hugs bring you close together, and, if not just treated as the norm, can be quite intimate too. Holding his hand proves you're not ashamed, and readdy to announce it to the world.
Take interest in what he says to you, and try and reply fully to him. Ask questions about him, and smile at him when he talks.
If you look into his eyes when you talk, it can make him feel like the most important thing in the world.
If there's something little you know he likes, get him something. Like, if he likes cars, (this may sound stupid) but buy him a car magazine. It may seem completely ridiculous, but it shows you've taken into account what he likes, and think about him, and what would make him happy.
Try to be there for him, tell him you're only a phone call away if you need him. And give him lots of attention and sympathy, believe me, he'll really appreciate this.
Maybe text him once a day asking if he's alright, and check he's ok. Just generally show him you care.
I hope this helps you.
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (7 January 2008):
hi hun!
im having the exact same problem.
ive been with this guy for about 6 months. i dont think i can say the words yet and i dont wnat anything sexual cus im still young. ive found that holding hands is meant to do something for you two. a hug and kiss on the cheek is great to..
and it says something. what you could do is when you feel like saying i love you or yo have a moment where you really love the guy do something. like cuddle or hold his hand. only for a while then move away. i think hell figure out why you do it.
hope this helps
feel free to mail me about anything else you wanna talk about.
lol
ellie
xxx
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