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writes:How do I show a guy that I really like him? He knows that I like him as a friend but how do I let him know that I want more than that...? I've never felt this way about a guy before, I keep having dreams about him, and he's always in my thoughts...So please any help would be apreciated!! How can I show him that I care about him and won't treat him badly? Reply to this Question |
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reader, bemused  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 I think that pixiedust gives good advice here. Make an emotional connection with the guy first...always a good way to get things rolling. I would add that it would not hurt to flirt a bit, use those feminine wiles as he also needs to see you in that way as well. I would not be over the top but guys like fun girls so let him see this as well.
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reader, pixeydust  +, writes (24 April 2008):
 I'd just ask him over for dinner and tell him that the two of you needed to talk. I'd have a nice dinner (not too romantic, you don't want to lay all your cards on the table and make him feel uncomfortable). Just start out with a nice conversation as usual, and then proceed to tell him how you feel, tell him that if doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, you are comfortable with remaining friends but that you'd like to further your relationship. Don't push and don't be too needy and don't be offended if he says he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. It may not neccesarily be you, he may be so comfortable being friends with you he may not want to ruin the friendship but starting a relationship, often when you start a relationship and it goes sour you lose the friendship as well. He just may be comfortable with what the two of you have and if that is the case, just leave it be, would you rather have him as a friend or as nothing? Just try to do what I suggested and like I said don't throw all your cards on the table at a time, save some for later.
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