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*armicIllusions
writes:I kinda want to know how can you make a guy want you back cause I want my ex back I just rather not talk to him right now, but better said he has me locked out of his life. Our break up was a random one, he one day said he just didn't love me anymore and after that we never really talked much. I know he was lying to me but what can I do? i just want to know how to basically seduce him and if not maybe find a new guy in the process.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (5 June 2010):
 Stop yourself from getting into a degrading situation. I think you need to move on. You broke up with this guy for a reason - the relationship was not working. If he wasn't that interested then, his attention span for you won't be that good now. It is not a bad thing - you pair just didn't get along, but there will be other boys out there who will be perfect for you.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 June 2010):
 Go out there and flirt with other guys to show him that there is life after him. Don't allow him to see you are sad or let him know that you cannot live without him.
Don't hang on to him or cling to him.You will appear clingy and that is a major turnoff.
Be confident and flaunt your beauty to other guys. He will think that he has made a mistake and will come crawling back to you .
Just totally ignore him and like he is wipe off from your planet.(This is called reverse psychology ,turn the tables back on him.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): Best advice? Get over him. Move on with your life. Do fun things, go out with friends, be happy and independent and loving life. Men hate girls that cry and beg and become useless as soon as they leave. They love independent, strong women.
I know TONS of girls whose ex's came crawling back when they just got over them quickly and did their own thing. And hey, if not, plenty of other guys will definitely have noticed you. As I said, guys love strong and independent women.
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