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ishawan
writes:I see theres lots of threads about girls seducing guys but never the other way round. It seems clear to me that as guys are way more sexually minded than girls they are easier to be seduced. So here I am asking about the hard way.There's a girl I've grown close to over the last couple of weeks and I've invited her to come over to my house for a day next week as I'm home alone. I haven't done anything with her yet, so by seduce, I mean the whole works, starting from the basics (e.g. kissing). We're going to watch a film together on my sofa, and thats all that is planned so far. I don't really know what I want out of this but you can never tell in these home alone situations.She did text me saying, "out of preference can you not call me 'hun' or I will have to kiss you as a punishment". I know its a joke, but is that a good way to start?She does like me but I don't know if she's up for anything, but I want to find out!P.S. I'm of legal age (16), she's not (15) so is it best to steer clear of sex or not?
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reader, bemused  +, writes (25 July 2008):
 Hmm..you sound pretty detached in your post here. I am not saying you are detached but it kind of sounds as if girls are interchangealbe for you right now...she will do but if it was not her it would be someone else.
You are honest...I give you that. It does sound as if it is only a physical relationship you are after. If this girl is fifteen, I would suggest you go no further with this. Think ahead. She may or may not be experienced but if she is fifteen, there is a good chance she could be kind of vulnerable. One thing leads to another, you accomplish your goal here, she is mystified and hurt when you inievitabley lose interest in her and she lets people know what happened.Then the you know what will hit the fan.
This girl is not a plaything, but a person. Consider her feelings and let her be. I think you sound a little selfish but I note your age...could have something to do with it.
If you really do like this girl, do not put her in such a compromising situaton so soon...two weeks into the relationship. She is fifteen after all though and if a physical relationship is what you are after...this should be a no go.
Good luck
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reader, clickyclick +, writes (25 July 2008):
 Dude, First of are you sure you're not pushing it a little too fast. Pushing it too fast can really end up drawing you both further apart from each other.Are you sure you want to seduce her? Because it might lead to something you really don't want to happen. O r even if you want something to happen you'll have other issues on your hands if you're parents or hers find out you'll have big problems on you're hands. I've also heard that you could also get a ban from the police for you not to go within a certain distance of her seing as she is under 16 --( which has nothing to do with sex) if her parents or your parents wanted to stop you from being able to do some thing they dont want and know you'll eventually regret.The movie is a good idea but seducing her? That's not really the best way to do it, is it? A girl likes a tough guy but who isn't afraid to show his emotions and respects himself, others and her! they are just one or two of the base qualities of what a girl looks for in a guy. I say it's best if you don't try to do anything with her like kissing, hugging is fine, otherwise it could completely 180 degrees. Hope you make the right decision.Follow your heart but take your head into account.Clicky
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reader, PsyCookie  + ♥, writes (25 July 2008):
 You have to abstain from sex for now because of two reasons: She's of not legal conscent and you really haven't built a relationship. I assure you that sex would feel MUCH better when you get to know her and have a time with her in a relationship.Here's a website that gives you tips on how to seduce a girl:http://www.wikihow.com/Seduce-a-WomanThis other website tells you about the whole dating/seducing thing.http://www.seductionbase.com/This websites would help you, but if you want to hear from experience, girls really like it when:-You compliment them-You say that they're prettier than any other girl (whether you mean it or not)-Buy them nice things-Look them in the eye-Treat them nice-Get her hints (As in, she says "im cold" and you hug her)-Treat them like equals.Good luck with this girl and I hope this helps!
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reader, TalkingHelps +, writes (25 July 2008):
 Okay how about a scary movie so she can huddle up to you?. and that text is very promising and the fact she accepted the invitation! it means she well likes you. But i wouldn't like just rush to go the whole way yet, unless as you say she's up for it.
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