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writes:heyokay so i have liked this guy for years, well i crushed on him for a coupl of years 2years ago. He has always been that one guy that i will always hav i thng for no matta what. At the start of this year i started to become friends with him and we got closer, we had a 'thing' for a while, kinda like we were going out but wernt if ya know what i mean!! i wasnt reali into it that much and was so confused at the time and then he thought it was best if we were just mates so all was good. I realise now what a mistake i made in not going out with him and i reali reali like him now. But ya see he has a rep for being a bit of a playa. and i know he has gottn wth a lot of girls, but not like everyone thinks he does, he has the kindest heart and i know he deep down cares about people. And he does not sleep around..only having had sex with one girl.I reali reali like him and i think i am ready for more with him but i am pretty sure he got over his liking me stage and sees me as mate now.How can I find out what his feelings are, for me or if he is with other girls..?and how could i get him to like me again, like get that fire for me like he had for me earlier this year??please help me, he wil always be that one guy that will always have my heart and i think he knows that!!please give advice, appreciated
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reader, cuttie1984  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 Okay... totally been here.. and it sucks! Basically, if you know you arent ready to be more with him, it is probably driving you nuts.. because you are always wondering if he is in fact with someone else. If he has a rep, no matter what they say, because he is the one that your falling for... you wont care what they say... and that can sometimes be a good thing, and more times than good,,, a bad thing...But if you think that you are the one that he can be with, and he would be faithful to you... then you have two choices..1. You can tell him how you feel and that you want to see him and you want him to see you (no others) and take it slow.2. You can remain friends with that constant heart beat everytime you talk to him or see him.. and listen to what people say.. and save any further heartbreak that may occur.It's a hard thing... From my experience.. and your probably not going to like it...:PYour most likely better off not being with him.... because if something goes terribly wrong... you will Never be able to have the friendship you have now...blah... well I hope I helped hun... Good Luck!
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