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writes:So i met this guy and i just fell for him the moment i saw him. I was invited to do some work for the company where he works and we just hit it off. Then only thing is I want to ask him out but i have never asked a guy out before. And the problem is today was the one and only day I had with the company. I don’t even remember his name to go back and find him, I only have the contact details of his colleague, and i don’t want to ask him out through him, as I don’t know him either, but he’s the only connection i have.I mean this is impulse; i have never done this before, EVER! I mean he could be that sweet and nice to every girl he meets, which has scared me off the thought of doing this, but hey you only live once.I just don’t know how to approach this situation.Has anyone got a story like this that worked out well? So any advice would be amazingThanks cupids x Reply to this Question
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reader, Mrs Curley  +, writes (29 August 2014):
Go for it! Life is short and you will learn from it which ever way it turns out.
As "E" says, the worst that can happen is that he may say "no". But that may be because he's in a relationship already.
But I've got a good feeling about this........ GO FOR IT......And let us know what happens!
Have fun.
Love xo
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (28 August 2014):
Dear OP,
Why not try it? The worst result is that he could say "no", and that's just a normal thing when adults are dating and looking for a partner.
If I was you, I'd make up an excuse to ask the colleague for the guys' phone number or mail. Say you've got some questions left from yesterday.. something work related. Then, you contact your crush. I think it's a good idea to be open and say that you would like to meet him, because you felt a connection/found him really nice etc. Don't be too enthusiastic though, I mean, be kind and charming, but don't overdo it, like you were his groupie. After all, you don't know him too well.
Wish you best of luck,
E.
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